Do you consider your wedding to be formal, semi-formal, or informal?

Approximately how many guests would you like to invite? What is the maximum number you could invite?

If you are having a dinner, will everyone be invited?

Is anyone invited only to the reception (e.g., co-workers and fellow worshippers)? 

Would you say that you as the couple are hosting your wedding, or are your parents involved? To what degree? 

Are you giving your dinner guests a choice of entree? Do you need to know how many will be having each choice in advance? Do you need to know the total number of guests coming to dinner?

Are you inviting children to the dinner and reception? If so, all children or just some? Is there a special menu for them?

When does your caterer or hall need a final count for dinner?

Do you want to include a map to the ceremony and/or reception site?

Are you serving your wedding cake as dessert or later during the reception? Do you anticipate guests taking cake or other treats home?